June 14, 2018
Dads and Divorce – Keeping the Kids
Q: Will the court automatically grant custody to my wife (or girlfriend)?
Not anymore. Fathers play a critically important role in the lives of their children and Maryland law recognizes this by providing fathers with rights that allow them to establish and maintain their paternal relationships. This is the number one question I get from fathers in the throes of separation and/or divorce, which stems from their concern about the wellbeing of their children. Much of this concern is based on an old law that was overturned years ago, misconceptions and stereotypes that no longer have a place in family law decisions.
Under Maryland law, when a married couple has a child, it is automatically presumed that the mother and her husband are the child’s parents. When a couple is not married, the process becomes more complicated, but with the help of an attorney the father may obtain custody and/or visitation with the child. In that situation, one of the of the most important steps in enforcing a father’s rights is establishing paternity to ensure that the child’s biological father also becomes the child’s legal father if the biological father is not listed on the child’s birth certificate.
Fathers that want an equal say in how their children are raised and who have been an active and positive influence in their children’s lives have just as good a chance as the children’s mother of being awarded primary or joint custody according to Maryland law.
I am always trying to inspire my clients to reach their divorce and/or custody goals by providing insightful and empowering legal advice. I thrive on helping clients understand how to successfully navigate the changes in their family dynamics to preserve family relationships and achieve the best outcome possible for the benefit of their children. When I’m not helping clients, I am running around with my husband and our two young and extremely active children and our Pug, Wali.
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